When you are always complaining at home, take a look in the mirror about what you put up with and allow for your life. When every relationship remains the same and you are like, am I with the same man, woman, but in a different body, it’s you. You create the perception of how you feel about yourself. The insecurities you have are in your family, relationships around you. You hang around with people who feed your negativity. They feed your insecurities about yourself. When you have a man, woman who can’t keep a job, doing things that are illegal, wrong, it’s you. Nobody needs to put up with negativity. It truly is a choice. It is time to move on.
At work, I notice it with the people we serve. They go home. We get an e-mail saying something went down during the day. None of my team can figure it out. When we finally figure out what it is, it is that the only way the people we serve can relate to their home is through negativity. Then, it gets perpetuated through other agencies we deal with because their people are feeling just as bad about themselves. Think about how much more productive we would all be if we all said, “no negativity at my door.” Leave it to the last place you came from.
The same people who are sharing information about everyone else, ARE sharing it about you. Don’t forget that. The same evil someone shares with you, they can do to you. So, SLAM that door SHUT, put 50 locks, glue it, but close it to negativity!